I may not like it, but the world needs people like you as well. Why apologize to me? I've never apologized for who I am. [She's not about to either. Why should she, when people will already look at her and claim to understand or know? Why give them the satisfaction of shame or remorse?]

But I do want to hurt you. [And will. And won't apologize.] I think your anger is understandable.

How were you dying?